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Vista Wife, a British wife and mother, gained international notoriety for her unorthodox lifestyle choice of being a swinger.
Despite being married, she engages in consensual s*xual encounters with other couples alongside her husband.
Vista Wife has found happiness in her marriage through the lifestyle of swinging, and she shares advice on living a similar lifestyle on TikTok.
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Vista Wife has amassed over 200,000 followers on TikTok, where she regularly shares advice on navigating jealousy and determining if a swinging lifestyle is suitable for a particular relationship. Despite years of openly living and discussing her lifestyle, she still encounters surprise and shock from some people when they learn about her and her husband’s choices.
The 29-year-old gained notoriety for her openness about engaging in consensual sexual encounters with others, including during the typical time frame when her children were in school.
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Vista Wife shared on the Love Bites podcast that although her lifestyle choice may come as a surprise to some, she does not typically face criticism in person.
She said: “As regards school mums, I know there are people talking about me but nobody has actually come up to me and said anything, so I’m just doing me. I’ve had one person at the school gates mention it, and it was a dad, that is all.”
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Instead of approaching her directly, many people seem to be too shy to talk to Vista Wife about her lifestyle choice. She recalls an instance where she received a message from someone whose wife had seen her in public but was too shy to speak with her.
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She added: “We’ve had some messages, I remember being out in Next or something like that, and all of a sudden we get a message on our swinging profile; ‘my wife says you in Next.’”
“I’m like, ‘why didn’t she come up to me then?’ My husband says maybe they’re a bit scared to say anything but I don’t know why.”
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Vista Wife has created a platform where she shares her knowledge about the lifestyle and even hosts events to encourage new individuals to explore the lifestyle.
She wrote: “That was something that I was really interested in starting for new swingers to experience because sometimes I’ve been messaging people and they’re wanting to get involved but they’re scared to go to a club.”
“So we had the idea of maybe we’ll start our own events and advertise them more to the newer swingers to get involved. Obviously, we have got experienced swingers going as well, so I think it’s a really nice mix of everything.”
What’s your thought on her choice of lifestyle? Tell us more in the comments.
Only problem would be she is not protecting her kids. Having a hot mom as a boy In grade school and high school is tough enough. Having your mom market herself as this available I can only imagine how her kids are treated.
This is all going to bite her in the ass in a few years
Who doesn’t enjoy being double-plugged really hard? I know I do!
You may enjoy the demonic activity now but you will stand before and be held accountable for all the things so I encourage You to get to know Jesus and repent of your sins and accept Christ into Your life
horse shit get a life
Monogamy isnt for everyone 😊
What people do behind closed doors is none of my business, providing no one is getting hurt! These are consensual adults!
May not be for everyone, so who am I to judge! Ya’ll have fun! Besafe!
Agreed but being public about it like this risks alienating her children not just to other kids (due to adults bias) but also herself as thay may resent this talking about behind his ger back just a opinion
It’s your life and it’s wonderful that you and your husband can do this without jealousy. I always wondered how that type of lifestyle was,I guess I will never know.
My wife and I are in our mid 40s in the US and we’re poly/ENM rather than swinging. Communication is a 100% must. LOTS of communication about every little thing. But once you work past any latent jealousies or “old world thinking,” it can be an amazing life. Just keep in mind that it’s MUCH easier for a woman to find dates than it is for a man. For example a poly husband might get one or two hits a week on an app like Tinder while his wife can get over 3,000 hits in less than 48 hours. (Yes, I speak from experience there haha) So it’s a lot more work for a guy, but can be very rewarding if you’re patient. Moreso if your partner is bi, dating a girl and asks if she can bring her home for 3way fun.
Protection is always used and people on the scene get tested more regularly than your average Joe.
I think it’s awesome but the only problem I would have is if my husband and another woman connected on an emotional attraction beacause when it’s just sex it’s fine but throw in emotion and your crossing the line.
So in other words you’re good with swinging but not polyamory- and thats fair. Poly isn’t for everyone.
This is where ground rules from the start come in to play.
Swinging is not just about sex , their is a social life that goes with it. Building friendships , bonds with people make better sex, as long as every one is open honest and follow each other rules, and you do have to learn to control emotions and jealous thoughts. Once you can you experience a great scene .
That’s ok with me. No cheating but having sex with another openly. freedom together.
ok but is sge got vac to avoid cervical cancer in the future? or is she avoiding std’s related , is sh a nympho…
you mean this girl wants to spread cancer to their victim mostly the wife of a cheater??? moreover, a sin is still wrong and can never be right the bible says it already it predicted sodom and gomorrah again in the future of mankind🤧
You can’t “spread” cancer to others, and while it’s fine to have your religious beliefs, please don’t push them on others like that.
The kids are going to suffer for the parents choices, once you decide to be a parent, you sacrifice your open public sexual swinging lifestyle for a while..a long while, at least the way you make it public, is there no discretion if it’s something you need to do?? back to it when they are legal adults… in my opinion, yes you will be part your prime… or just continue to be selfish… who cares about the kids in the name of my orgasms…SMH