Shko Faraj Agha
Psychologically damaging remarks can inadvertently emerge from parents in moments of frustration. Children internalize these hurtful comments, affecting their self-esteem and trust. Apologizing and fostering open communication can heal and strengthen the parent-child bond.
1. “You’re Too Sensitive”
Invalidating a child’s sensitivity may hinder their emotional expression and well-being. Encourage open communication and support their emotions positively.
2. “That’s Life”
Dismissive statements like “that’s life” leave children feeling unheard. Acknowledge their struggles, provide comfort, and show empathy to support them effectively.
3. “Why Can’t You Be More Like…”
Comparing a child to others can lead to feelings of inadequacy. Celebrate their uniqueness, focus on their strengths, and let them know they are valued.
4. “If You Don’t Come Now, I’ll Leave You Here”
Threatening abandonment causes fear and anxiety. Instead, use positive reinforcement and clear boundaries to foster a respectful relationship.
5. “You Should Know Better”
Avoid setting unrealistic expectations; guide and be patient with their mistakes. Provide gentle support as they learn and grow.
6. “You Never” or “You Always Do XYZ”
Extreme statements harm a child’s self-image. Address specific behaviors, offer praise for positive changes, and promote responsibility.
Did you know these are psychologically damaging remarks to your kids? How is your communication with them? Let us know in the comments below.
