People across the U.S. are beginning to open up about a ‘complicated’ sexual fetish that, according to reports, involves around ‘four million married couples’.
Many couples have started discussing this particular kink, which experts describe as both intriguing and complex.
This growing openness has made the fetish a hot topic among sex educators and online communities. A professional dominatrix explained that it’s vital for people to have a “safe space” where they can express their fantasies freely. She emphasized that doing so can prevent emotional buildup and help individuals lead more balanced lives.
However, certain fetishes still remain under-discussed and often misunderstood. One of the most challenging among them continues to gain traction, even as people struggle to fully grasp it.
The Rise in Popularity
According to BedBible.com, this specific fetish is now one of the fastest-growing sexual trends in the U.S. The platform estimates that around 6.25 million couples are engaged in it — including roughly four million married pairs.
Searches for this fetish on adult entertainment platforms have surged by 57 percent in just three years. Experts suggest that fostering a more “sex-positive environment” is crucial for helping people explore and understand the psychological and emotional layers this kink represents.
The Fetish
The practice in question is cuckolding.
“The term ‘cuckold’ or ‘cuckoldry’ historically referred to a man whose wife has been unfaithful to him, implying that he is aware of the infidelity and possibly even complicit in it,” BedBible.com explains.
“In modern usage, the term is often associated with sexual fetishes involving the cuckold fantasy, in which a man derives pleasure from his partner engaging in sexual activity with someone else while he watches or otherwise participates.”
Online Discussions
On Reddit, a now-deleted user on the subreddit r/CuckoldPsychology asked:
“What does the cuckholding trend say about society?”
Another user responded:
“Nothing. It is not a trend. Cuckoldry as a sexual practice is very familiar in classical and medieval sources. We’re talking about a fairly universal sexual thrill.”
More participants joined in to share their thoughts and personal experiences.
One user wrote:
“Interesting post. I think you hit on a lot of good thoughts. Like most things it’s complicated, but all those factors probably contribute. I know for me personally it absolutely is about seeing my wife as a liberated sexual being that can do whatever she wants with whoever she wants with my complete support and encouragement.”
Another added:
“I love that. So wholesome and so hot to me. I just love women like that, it makes me so happy to see.”
A third concluded:
“I think overall it shows that monogamy is not the sole option.”
Communication Is Key
For those considering exploring cuckolding, experts advise approaching the subject with care and patience. Take time to learn about the emotional and relational dynamics involved.
It’s vital that both partners give full consent and establish clear boundaries through open, honest communication. For those who feel uncertain, seeking guidance from a sex therapist or intimacy coach can help navigate this complex dynamic safely and respectfully.
