Dalip Celbeqiri
Husbands witness their wives juggling various roles during marriage – being a wonderful wife, a skilled cook, and caring mother. While children may contribute to marital chaos, it’s unsurprising that women encounter stress amidst these responsibilities.
However, does the husband contribute more stress to his wife’s life?
In modern society, many women feel compelled to take on the role of parenting their partners rather than relying on them.
Women often find themselves juggling multiple roles in relationships: chef, teacher, doctor, maid, and event planner. Despite their superhuman efforts, they can eventually burn out, impacting their work outside the home.
TODAY.com surveyed over 7,000 moms, revealing that on average, moms rate their stress level 8.5 out of 10. Furthermore, 46% of women stated husbands as a greater source of stress compared to kids.
The survey findings also indicated that 75% of mothers with partners take on the majority of parenting and household responsibilities.
A significant number of mothers, approximately 20%, expressed immense stress due to insufficient spousal support and the inability to manage their daily tasks within the available time.
Recent research reveals a concerning pattern: the impact of marital stress on long-term health. A study from the University of Padova highlights that if the wife passes away, the husband’s health declines, while the wife experiences improved health upon the husband’s passing.
Solution: Fixing the issue starts with open communication with your spouse/partner. Create a shared duty list to reduce stress in your lives.
While husbands often face criticism for not sharing household responsibilities equally, they genuinely strive to be supportive partners and fathers. However, distrust from wives/mothers can lead them to take on additional duties themselves.
Solution: To alleviate burdens, mothers should trust their husbands as a team, allowing time for self-renewal and granting fathers the opportunity to engage with the children.
What strategies do you implement to foster trust and balance the responsibilities in your family? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
