Kiena Dawes, a 23-year-old mother from Fleetwood, Lancashire, tragically took her own life on July 22, 2022. Kiena, a vibrant young woman with a bright future, had been enduring immense emotional turmoil, and her story is one of pain, abuse, and lost hope.
Before her death, Kiena made the heartbreaking decision to drop her 9-month-old daughter off at a friend’s house. Shortly after, she walked to a nearby railway track, where her life came to an end. Her body was discovered by British Transport Police, leaving behind an overwhelming sense of grief for her family and loved ones.
In the wake of her death, a shocking farewell letter was found on Kiena’s phone. The letter revealed the profound emotional toll that years of abuse had on her. In it, Kiena Dawes pointed the blame at her ex-partner, accusing him of destroying her life and contributing to her tragic decision to end it. Her words were chilling: “I fought hard, I fought long… [My ex] killed me.”
Kiena’s ex-partner was known for his controlling behavior and abusive actions. Prosecutors have argued that his violent treatment played a significant role in Kiena’s demise. Despite a restraining order against him due to physical abuse, he continued to contact and threaten Kiena. This violation of the order ultimately contributed to her spiraling mental health, as she sought refuge in a world that seemed to turn its back on her.
In the months leading up to her death, Kiena Dawes attempted to seek help. She reached out to the police after another violent encounter, but her brother, Kynan, claims that her concerns were not taken seriously. In a desperate move, Kiena posted a photo on Facebook showing her bandaged head and bruised arms, trying to raise awareness of the abuse. However, the police reportedly told her to remove the post, leaving her feeling abandoned by the very system that was meant to protect her.
Kiena Dawes had been diagnosed with Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder (EUPD), also known as borderline personality disorder. This condition can cause severe emotional instability, making it difficult for individuals to cope with stress and emotional pain. Her diagnosis, coupled with the abuse she suffered, led to a tragic mental and emotional breakdown that her ex-partner reportedly exploited.
Kiena’s ex-partner is facing serious charges, including Actual Bodily Harm (ABH), coercive control, and manslaughter. He denies all allegations, and the trial is currently ongoing. The case highlights the devastating impact of abusive relationships and the failure of authorities to protect those in need.
If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts or emotional distress, it is crucial to seek support. You can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988, where trained professionals offer free, confidential emotional support 24/7.
