Zhwlya Azad
Mistakes are for humans. All people make mistakes, and that is normal. However, when it comes to relationships, it looks like they have consequences. You might be that girl that finds it difficult to get into a relationship. You might have always been like this, or any experience in the past has made you be. However, putting fingers towards whose fault it was, gets tricky. It is challenging to understand, let alone accept you might have done something wrong.
Let us assume you are ready to welcome someone into your life. However, the outcome is the same. At first, he wants to hang out with you, and in the end, he finds his way in a different path, unattracted to you anymore. But why does that happen?
Viral Strange has prepared a list of 10 mistakes girls make that turn him off.
1. You chase guys that are bad for you.
You might have a pattern of chasing guys that are bad for you. Decent guys will not respect you if you do not respect yourself. Being desperate for a relationship that much that makes you force yourself into bad relationships will make him go away. Do not settle for less!
2. Being too independent that you cannot welcome people in your life.
I am all in for independent women! The most attractive ones! May they be more! May they always win! However, speaking from a personal point of view, being too independent does not always help. You might project the image of someone who is no longer welcoming people in her life. No one will want to approach, let alone date you. Yes, it is not your problem what other people perceive, but hey… at the end of the day, it does not get you a relationship.
3. Always getting, never giving.
Selfish people are a total turn-off. Relationships are give-and-take. By getting and never giving, you make him go away. Balance it!
4. You are criticizing him non-stop.
Congrats! You are a bore! No one likes to be criticized non-stop. Stop being ruthless and start being sensitive towards his feelings. Otherwise, you will drive him away.
5. You are being too dramatic.
Men hate drama. I mean, they despise it. If you always are too dramatic, do not be surprised if he goes away.
6. You are not trustworthy.
Trust is the key to a relationship. If you do not give him reasons to trust you, why are you in the relationship even? How would you expect him to fall for you?
7. You are entitled.
You are not better than him, and you cannot own him. You should not develop a sense of entitlement and boss him around. This is a common mistake that will drive him away in a second.
8. You don’t have a life outside your relationship.
You live only inside your relationship. Not having a life of your own will make him turned off. Why? Well… Your happiness should not depend only on your relationship. You must seek your individual life, too.
9. You aren’t honest with your feelings.
Be honest with him regarding your intentions. If you leave empty spaces, he will not know what is on your mind. Be honest with your feeling towards him.
10. You don’t speak about your life.
Being all mysterious might be attractive at first. However, if you keep hiding things and do not open up gradually about your life, it will make him go away.
Have you ever made these mistakes as a girl regarding your relationships? What about you, men? What turns you off the most? Tell us in the comments below.
