In the early 1990s, audiences around the world fell in love with Mara Wilson, the child star who charmed viewers in family favorites like Mrs. Doubtfire and Miracle on 34th Street. Yet as she grew older, the industry that had once adored her seemed to move on, and she quietly vanished from Hollywood’s spotlight.
“Hollywood was burned out on me,” Wilson reflects, adding, “if you’re not cute anymore, if you’re not beautiful, then you are worthless.”
In 1993, the five-year-old Mara Wilson captured hearts as Robin Williams’ youngest child in Mrs. Doubtfire. Born in California, she had previously appeared in commercials before being cast in one of Hollywood’s most successful comedies.
“My parents were proud, but they kept me grounded. If I ever said something like, ‘I’m the greatest!’ my mother would remind me, ‘You’re just an actor. You’re just a kid,’” Wilson, now 38, recalled.
Following that success, she landed the role of Susan Walker – previously played by Natalie Wood – in 1994’s Miracle on 34th Street. In an essay for The Guardian, Wilson described her audition: “I read my lines for the production team and told them I didn’t believe in Santa Claus,” adding, “but I did believe in the tooth fairy and had named mine after Sally Field.”
‘Most Unhappy’
Wilson went on to star as the magical girl in 1996’s Matilda, alongside Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman. That same year, she faced the devastating loss of her mother, Suzie, to breast cancer.
“I didn’t really know who I was…There was who I was before that, and who I was after that. She was like this omnipresent thing in my life,” Wilson said, recalling the profound grief she felt. “I found it kind of overwhelming. Most of the time, I just wanted to be a normal kid, especially after my mother died.”
Despite her fame, she admits, she was exhausted and “the most unhappy.” At 11, she reluctantly took on her final major role in Thomas and the Magic Railroad, telling The Guardian: “The characters were too young. At 11, I had a visceral reaction to [the] script…Ugh, I thought. How cute.”
‘Burned Out’
Wilson’s departure from Hollywood wasn’t entirely voluntary. As a teenager, opportunities dwindled while she navigated puberty and outgrew her “cute” image. She describes herself as “just another weird, nerdy, loud girl with bad teeth and bad hair, whose bra strap was always showing.”
“At 13, no one had called me cute or mentioned the way I looked in years, at least not in a positive way,” she says.
Facing the pressures of fame and the public scrutiny of growing up, Wilson experienced the harsh realities of the industry.
“I had this Hollywood idea that if you’re not cute anymore, if you’re not beautiful, then you are worthless. Because I directly tied that to the demise of my career. Even though I was sort of burned out on it, and Hollywood was burned out on me, it still doesn’t feel good to be rejected.”
Mara as the Writer
Today, Wilson has found a new path as a writer. In 2016, she published her first book, Where Am I Now? True Stories of Girlhood and Accidental Fame, recounting everything from “what she learned about sex on the set of Melrose Place, to discovering in adolescence that she was no longer ‘cute’ enough for Hollywood, these essays chart her journey from accidental fame to relative (but happy) obscurity.”
She also wrote Good Girls Don’t, a memoir exploring her experiences as a child actor under intense expectations.
“Being cute just made me miserable,” Wilson wrote in her Guardian essay. “I had always thought it would be me giving up acting, not the other way around.”
Her story serves as a candid look at childhood stardom, the fleeting nature of Hollywood adoration, and the challenges of growing up in the public eye.
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