Zhwlya Azad
Pursue and pursue… Women and men get along with many people who they think are the ones. However, a good man or a good woman is hard to find. Everything that makes you feel at home with that person is good.
The thing is that people like different things about other people. That is normal. However, they might all agree about the fundamental traits their partner should have. Some habits are part of those people, and their energy cannot lie. They are the ones!
Viral Strange has listed 16 habits that show that if you like a woman with these 16 habits, you should pursue her!
1. SHE INITIATES
She shows effort! She might ask you out, kiss you, or text you first, and she does not hesitate to initiate! Appreciate this because that kind of woman is not easy to find.
2. SHE CARES
She keeps showing her care toward you, even after you pursued her. She is not playing with your feelings, but she cares about you genuinely.
3. ALWAYS RESPECTFUL
She is always respectful. Even though both of you might get involved in some tricky situation in the public eye, she decides to stay cold and not react to respect your relationship. Do not forget that respect should be mutual!
4. HAS A LIFE
She is independent and has a life. She goes out with her friends. Spends time with her family and does anything that fulfills her in personal and professional terms. She knows her priorities and does not wait for you to do something with her life.
5. NO MESS IN HER LIFE
She has her life sorted. We do not say that there are no problems here and there, but she stays with you for you, not to be her savior. She is not waiting for you to fix her mess or something.
6. SHE WANTS YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE
Your status or money does not impress her. She can get on her feet by herself and does not want you to fulfill her financial needs. She loves you for who you are. Nothing more than that…
7. PLAYS HER PART IN THE BEDROOM
The relationship is a two-player game. Each one of you should contribute to making it work. Just like that, even in the bedroom aspect. She plays her part in making things more exciting and less boring.
8. SHE APPRECIATES YOU
She shows her gratitude and appreciation toward you. She supports everything that makes you happy and does not want to change you.
9. BEING PROUD OF YOU
She tells the world about you! She shows how proud she is of you and keeps bragging, in a way, about all your accomplishments. She is genuinely interested in you.
10. LISTENS TO YOU
Everyone struggles to find someone to listen to for once. She is empathetic and listens to you for everything! She loves hearing about your day or your worries. She values you and is worth keeping.
11. A HAPPY SOUL
Everything around her seems to lighten up. She has positive energy and appreciates her present more than those not-too-friendly past situations. She does not judge and is a happy soul in general.
12. DOES NOT TALK YOU DOWN
She does not joke around about you, even with her best friends. She does not talk you down in front of her friends or yours. She respects you too much to do that.
13. SHE GIVES YOU SPACE
She gives you space because you have a life, too. She is not cringy and attached beyond normal. She knows you have other things to do rather than staying with her all the time.
14. SHE TRUSTS YOU
She trusts you! You will know eventually. She does not nag when you go off-schedule but leaves you to your own decisions and remains calm. No drama!
15. KEEPS MAKING EVERYTHING FUN
She might be serious and stuff, but she loves fun, too. She keeps making everything fun around you. Those silly tantrums or jokes are funny and welcome in any relationship. If you cannot laugh together, what else should you do?
16. SHE LETS YOU BE YOURSELF
What everyone is looking for in a partner is someone who understands them and lets them be them. She respects your feelings and leaves you to be yourself. This is a healthy distance, and she is worth pursuing.
Have you found the one? Does she (or he) have any of these habits/virtues? Tell us in the comments!
Yeah so I think this can happen in a perfect world where even men have no flaws..women aren’t puppets and if men expect no drama and space and full trust, well then they need to earn it. It can’t happen just like that. Sometimes giving space may end up in affairs! It’s not a positive thing all the time. Also why can’t a man be there for his woman if she’s a mess? Why can’t he be a part of cleaning it up? Cummon we are looking for people who emotional support and understand us. This is not a mechanical relationship..we have to face the worst and best together! I didn’t find your article very convincing and practical, sorry
Nothing wrong with being part of the clean up as long as he’s not the reason for the clean up or he’s not trying to fix her, or she’s solely relying on him to fix her. I’m a mess I admit thar but so is he. We are working on ourselves as well as our relationship. Not me trying to fix him or him trying to fix me. But fixing ourselves together supporting each other as we go. Broken in different ways. But learning from each other as we go. It works for us. It’s not perfect but no man or woman should enter a relationship based on “fixing” someone. They just don’t work. As for trust and space. That’s a 2 way street. If you can’t trust him/her why are you with them? That is setting yourself up for disaster. If they gonna cheat they gonna cheat. Giving them space ain’t gonna matter. Cheaters will find a way to cheat. Just saying. I liked the article. My husband and I are 18 yrs st
great article
respect
loyalty
trust
appreciate
fun and energetic
initiate needs to be both ways though 🙂
good morals are for all relationships
Your article is unrealistic and you are a man . I can tell by the selfish and demeaning writing style…. happy single life