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Don’t Marry a Woman Who has These 10 Habits

Marriage is one of the most important processes in ‏life, most of the separations in the marriage process go back to the fact that we choose only on the basis of the beauty of our spouse. So if you want to have a successful marriage you need to first know how compatible the person you have chosen is with you.

1-The woman only cares about her feeling.

Don’t marry the woman who always says (me) , doesn’t care about your feelings and thoughts, she just wants you to do what makes her happy.

‎2-‏The woman who only thinks of wealth and possessions.


‎‏There is no happiness in life when your wife is just thinking about money

‎3-‏The woman who is always dissatisfied and pessimistic.


No matter how good you do it, it is always dissatisfying and it doesn’t matter how much you try to please it.

‎4-‏The woman who doesn’t obey you.


she always does things you don’t like and doesn’t care how you feel

‎5- The $ women

The woman who always asks for expensive accessories and cars
Because if you don’t do what she want, she will go away.

‎6-‏The woman who tells all her secrets to her friends.

You can’t have a private own life because your wife tells everything to her friends

‎7-‏The woman who think she’s always right.


‎‏Because she always thinks she’s right and you’re wrong, she doesn’t care about your thoughts and opinions.

8-Don’t marry a woman who is wasting a lot of money.

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9- Negative women.

Don’t marry a woman who always talks negatively about you and your actions

‎10-‏Don’t marry a woman who wants to keep you away from your family.


‏Because your family always wants the best for you, you shouldn’t marry someone who keeps you away from your loved ones.

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    • I can honestly say that for us woman who don’t fit in these categories are often looked over or taken advantage of so now being single is nothing short of bliss because finding a man with the same virtues is impossible…& I’d rather be alone then lost in another person’s narcissism…

  1. Worst part is any women with most of these traits would honestly believe that this post doesn’t describe them. Th em would to their man for confirmation. That would just open up a can of worms. A smart man wouldn’t know this. So the guy would like to lie to her which proposed another whole problem. If you would like to get to spare her feelings what else would you lie about. Before the end of the day you will think to yourself why the hell did I just stop and read this article. It gave me confirmation and reminded me as to why I wish I had read an article like this before. Then again what do I know,. Definately not much.Seeing how I can’t understand why two people would end up here in, what should have been a fun conversation. Just to look back and realise I am an ass for not understanding where she was coming from. I mean they’re was nothing funny, and into of that just confirmed all the more how much of a stupid idiot I am. 🤪 You got to love being married!

    • Bullshit! Make it point to observe these things if she even appeals to you on an intellectual level. If she’s ignorant and bores you then y pursue her.

    • Siya, Why is it always the man who lies n cheats? I’m a fella n never have or would cheat on a partner. We’re not all the same like. I’ve been cheated on more times than u can imagine by women. Men always get the blame but women are just as bad if not worse!!!

  2. Personally I’m not like this but I do know someone in this position right now and everyone of those traits his significant other possess but he loves her and over looks all of it. He is unhappy he is hurt everyday by it but he won’t leave her cause he thinks it’s what he deserves and he really does deserve to be happy he is sweet kind and treats her like a queen. How do you get someone to understand their worth and what they deserve? I have tried a million times and every time I think he realizes the truth she sucks him back in to her web of well you might as well say torture because it’s emotional torture.

    • Sounds like your friend is with a narcissist. Ask him what advice he would give you. Or pose hypotheticals on bjs experiences and ask what he would advise someone else. The penny may drop.
      I walked away from a narcissist like this man wife. Best thing I ever did. I feel whole again.

      • Well I was once in this kind of situation untill I noticed and see it myself,pray for him probably he will get out of it one day and realize how good and comforting man he can be,or you can show him this comments I hope it’s helps, woman are scam and guys like us are rare bro we’re the best and there’s a lot of girls that want us but we’re stucked with the bad ones and would do anything to be with you,try push her away then you will start seeing your worth,leave her for days or weeks I promise you bro she will come back begging, don’t take her back no matter the tears she shed,she won’t change

  3. These are all right but there are so many other factors to think about also I am now 49 years old and I haven’t been single since I was 19 years old I have been with many types of women different ethnicities, sizes, backgrounds,you name it I kept chasing a dream only to find out that dream does not exist now that I learned from my mistakes I do have an ideal type of woman in mind but after my current relationship ends I plan to stay single and just love me for once.but when getting married you not only have to look at the person in front of you it’s an absolute must to meet the family because that will be a major factor in your life with this person also friends then there is their social media if your woman has nothing but guys on it just one night stand her and change your number no future with a girl like that also does she have a secret drug addiction like my current and then what do you do are their kids on drugs in my case yes all 4 so my advice would be just one night stand it and live for yourself it will save you alot of headache I plan to write a book on this long adventure that I’m about to end this month well good luck people and remember one night stand it 🤨

  4. The obeying thing is what got me it should be like mutual respect not obeying if that’s the case then woman shouldn’t marry a man that won’t obey them.

    • Yeah, they are all sensible. I also think it goes the other way. I believe getting married to a friend, not just a total stranger solves half of these issues.

  5. i guess i am the marrying type because i don’t fit any of these. Obey is the funny one, that word was taken out of the vows years ago. So no women has to obey like a child listening to a parent. A women will promise to be faithful, honest and honor and cherish her husband until death do them part. and most women will honor her wedding vows. how many men can say they will do the same and truly mean it. Women don’t want those traits in their man either. so it takes to make a real relationship work.

  6. It is a lot of men, and them males then turn into gaslighting narcissists. I believe in communication, there is no place for 3 people in a relationship, money isn’t worth it and should never be fought over in a relationship. Being with someone for money isn’t worth it. You just need each other Wether you only have rags to wear or a tent to live in, you need the security that you both have each others backs. Everything else is Material possessions and can be gone in a minute because of fire or flood.

  7. There is no perfect spouse. You may find someone who has great sense of humor but lack of common sense or worst, dumb at all. I guess, before you start picking fish in the ocean, know first how high or low your standards, expectations and most importantly, your patience. Yes there are a lot of choice but finding someone who is mature, also ready to change and have a new life living with someone, that can be a distinction. Unless the other party isn’t ready to it, all those list of don’t, both of you possess. You and your prospect must be willing to negotiate, otherwise welcome yourself to celibacy or indefinite single-hood.

    • I agree. There are men that’s like that. I just got out of that relationship because he didn’t want me around my children or family, and he was a narcissist.

  8. Obey? We aren’t just slaves and ” negative woman ” some families are TOXIC. It’s rare when there’s good families that protect each other and LOVE and CARE for you. Don’t Normalize that way of thinking just bc they’re family you should care.

  9. #4 Obey you? Oh hell no. I took that out of my wedding vows 30 years ago, and we are still happily married with no ‘obeying’ going on from either of us.

  10. This goes for husbands as well! When you find out these traits plus more it’s usually 2-3 years down the the track.
    I could write a book on this subject!
    I realised my answer was too long and deleted most of it many times.
    I should write a book myself!
    Beware ladies! There are men that will milk you dry and leave you with nothing but a poisoned heart and a black and blue soul.

  11. 3 habits about money that could easily fit as one – so, he can spend the money anyway he wants?
    2 habits about being negative that -||- – so, only optimistic women are marrying material?
    1 habit about keeping away from family: what if his family is toxic? not all parents and siblings are there for you, caring and loving, what about those abusive parents?
    this article was made just like this comment, to write just about anything that makes even a bit of sense and make the reason for discussions.
    if all those habits are present, you wouldn’t even keep as a girlfriend, let alone wed her!
    Make no mistake, many of the traits appear way later, after years of marriage!