Off-limits for boyfriends in relationships are always present, same as for girls. Communication is vital, but some conversations make guys dread them. Understanding how words impact them is crucial. Stay mindful and aware of your words’ impact on your man.
1. Don’t compare him to your dad.
Avoid mentioning any resemblance between your guy and your dad, as it might make him uncomfortable, no matter your intentions.
2. Never compare him to your ex.
Comparing your current man to an old flame is a big no. Such remarks won’t be well-received, so avoid making them.
3. Avoid the “Do I look fat?” trap.
Asking him if your clothes make you look fat is a lose-lose situation. It’s better to avoid putting him in that position.
4. Be sensitive about his decisions.
Avoid being passive-aggressive or questioning his intelligence when discussing his decisions, as it might anger him.
5. Don’t challenge his manhood.
Do not make remarks that might question his masculinity, as most guys are sensitive about their manhood.
6. Be mindful of his weight.
Avoid making direct comments about going to the gym or his weight; there are better ways to address the topic.
7. Avoid blaming behavior on periods.
He might dread hearing you blame your actions on your period, as it can come across as irrational or dismissive.
8. Don’t overdo “Do you love me?”
Asking too often might make him feel inadequate. Instead, focus on building trust and understanding in your relationship.
Did you know these off-limits boyfriends have in a relationship? Let us know of any past or current experience regarding them.